When I decided to pursue the job of Area Director with AuPairCare it was not only because of my love for people but my passion for this company. My family hosted an amazing girl, Jaqueline (I am sure you have all heard me talk endlessly about her!) for over a year. Jaque is from Brazil. While we had an amazing program with Jaque and consider her to be a part of our family, I can say for sure that we learned a lot and it was not always "perfect". (Jaque can attest to that too!) What we did learn was that communication with each other was absolutely necessary. When you live with anyone, even your spouse and children, things are not always wonderful. Let's face it....we can be grouchy and annoying at times. If you have a positive attitude, communicate with one another, and learn to appreciate and respect each other, your year (or two) will be amazing! Take time to talk outside of work, spend time with each other on family outings, au pairs-make your family a meal from your country. There is often a fine line as an au pair because you not only work for your Host Family, but you are here for a cultural experience. Be proactive and try to have fun during your year here. When you are feeling down...don't stay cooped up in your house....go for a drive or out to dinner. This should be an adventure for you while you are in the U.S. so take every opportunity to make it a great year!!! Ask me for any advice....I've been in your shoes!!!
P.S.- Jaque may be coming to visit us in April so you can all meet her then!!! She was a blessing to our family!
